a woman in an orange dress stands with 3 men dressed in suits in front of a floral arbour.

Things I Wish Couples Knew Before Getting Married

The internet is full of wedding advice. This is mine.

A collection of observations, insights, and opinions gathered from hundreds of ceremonies and conversations with couples.

Take what fits. Leave what doesn't. Because what matters, is that your wedding feels like you.

Your guide to choosing a celebrant (by a celebrant)

Most couples start by asking what a celebrant costs.

I'd be asking a different question that’s much more important for your day.

You planned for rain. But what about the rest?

Most couples have a wet weather plan. Not many have a wind plan, heat plan, glare plan, or "my guests are slowly melting in the sun" plan.

Here's what I've learned after hundreds of outdoor ceremonies.

Let’s talk about vows, baby


How to start, what to think about, and the one thing you need to know to make sure the vibe hits right.

Because one person writing a novel while the other has a haiku is not the goal.

celebrant in yellow dress stands in front of colourful background with two brides one wearing a white dress and the other in a dark green suit

Nina absolutely made our wedding day. She was thoughtful and kind, and really understood what my partner and I wanted out of a ceremony. Before she even did our ceremony we had recommended her to a friend because we trusted her so much. There is no need to look any further than Nina, from our first meeting we knew we had found the perfect celebrant. I could not recommend her more.

Lauren and Adri